Diabolical Lies
Diabolical Lies
Alex Cooper, Alix Earle, & the Business of Relatability
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Alex Cooper, Alix Earle, & the Business of Relatability

A tale of the Mean Girl and the Girl's Girl.

Alex Cooper is one of the most successful podcast hosts in the country.

Alix Earle is one of the most popular TikTok stars in America.1

The women, who appear to be separated by a single vowel and little else, have become central to a slow-burning pop culture feud2 representing two distinct, radically divergent archetypes: the Mean Girl™ and the Girl’s Girl.™

Cooper’s storied past includes a messy, public split with her former Call Her Daddy cohost, Sofia Franklyn, which she parlayed into an enormous deal with Spotify and, later, SiriusXM. Earle’s background is simpler and cleaner, involving a seemingly overnight ascent on TikTok and a Teflon-like immunity to controversy.

Today’s episode is ultimately a story about the manipulation of discourse and how double standards don’t just exist between women and men, but between women who are, for all intents and purposes, functionally identical.

It’s a deep dive into the characters populating the latest girl-on-girl morality play,3 a spectacle uniquely suited to demonstrate the skill of those seated atop the modern attention capture content creation industry. Enjoy this valiant effort to extract a takeaway other than “wow, maybe the internet really is making all of us stupider.”

Call Her Daddy’s Alexandra Cooper Made Her Name Talking About Sex. With Her Massive Spotify Deal, She’s Pushing Beyond That” by Eliana Dockterman for Time (2021)

Daddy Issues: Trouble Behind the Scenes of Alex Cooper’s Unwell Media Empire” by Clara Molot for Vanity Fair (2026)

Noticing Emily Ratajkowski’s New Essay, Gwyneth Paltrow’s Politics, and Alex Cooper’s Leadership Skills” from Good Noticings (2026)

Inside Alex Cooper’s Unwell: Tears, Screaming and Employees Looking for the Exit” by Ashley Carman for Bloomberg (2026)

Alex Cooper, Husband Skip Team Meeting After Behavior Complaints” by Ashley Carman for Bloomberg (2026)

Alex Cooper Went From Raunchy Podcaster to Gen-Z’s Barbara Walters” by EJ Dickson for Rolling Stone

The ‘Call Her Daddy’ Feud: What Happened?” by Taylor Lorenz for The New York Times (2020)

Dave Portnoy’s obnoxious video to “Suitman” on the Call Her Daddy Instagram account during the negotiation breakdown

The truth about Call Her Daddy” on Alex Cooper’s YouTube channel

After Leaving ‘Call Her Daddy,’ Sofia Franklyn is Back with a New Podcast of Her Own” by Andy Meek for Forbes (2020)

Dave Portnoy Hates The Way Alix Earle Has Handled The Alex Cooper Controversy,” also known as a 50-year-old man hosting his favorite series, “Tea by the Sea”

Brianna Chickenfry entering the chat4

‘Call Her Daddy’ Host Alex Cooper Launches the Unwell Network, Inks Development Deals with Influencers Alix Earle and Madeline Argy” by Todd Spangler for Variety (2023)

The Alix Earle Effect” by Véronique Hyland for Elle

Alix Earle’s ‘Hot Mess’ Podcast Dropped by Alex Cooper’s Unwell Network (EXCLUSIVE)” by Tatiana Siegel for Variety (2025)

The Art of the Alix Earle Deal” by Sara Ashley O’Brien for The Wall Street Journal (2025)

The first direct shot, fired by Alex Cooper

Alix Earle is Bringing Your FYP to TV with New Netflix Reality Series” by Melanie Whyte for Tudum, the Netflix site (2026)

The Conservative Star Who Wants to Host the ‘Call Her Daddy’ of the Right” by Ashley Carman for Bloomberg

You know we’re in some rich pop culture territory when the right-wing reactionary framing almost exactly matches the mainstream framing

Alex Cooper’s Netflix Problem” by Natalie Korach for Status (2026)

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and Katie Gatti Tassin is tired

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ok I promise my next episode will be something more substantive because I realize this is giving

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white-on-white crime, etc.

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truly it’s in moments like these where I link to “citations” that are just TikToks by people named Chickenfry that I really start to question how we (I) got here

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